It won't work witout a fuse.....your car is probaly not powerful enough to do one.

 

If your car had TCS or ASR, you would have a button to turn it on/off right in front of your shifter. My T/A has it.

Check your RPO codes for "NW9" this is the RPO code for Traction Control. The sticker which contains all of your RPO codes will either be in your glove box or on the end of the drivers door.

 

my place for the TCS relay has no connections, wtf. i need tcs im the rain :P

 

Your car doesn't have TCS. Adding some relay to your system will not give you TCS, it doesn't work that way.

Again, check the RPO codes on your door to see if you've got the one for traction control. If you don't, there is nothing you can do to "get" traction control, other than selling your car and buying one with it.