There is a bundle of wires and grounds under the engine , 2 grouns connect to the starter then there is the plug that goes to the passenger o2 sensor then there is some other thing that plugs into the block, then there is another ground the really small one and I cant figure out where it goes, any help is appreciated....

 

This is probably the small ground wire. It goes on a stud above the starter.

I don't know of any grounds that go to the starter. It should have a purple wire and a big positive cable that comes from the battery (even though it is black).

You should also have connector for the knock sensor.

 

Good god that was helpful.... do you just have these pictures laying around lol??? Thanks