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Old Jun 28, 2002 | 04:22 PM
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Unhappy Engagement is over

She told me she is not sure anymore. Nothing is different but something feels wrong about us getting married. It was going to be Feb. 8th. She is an awesome Christian girl and I can say for %100 sure there are no other issues (infidelity, partying, etc...) It sucks alot. You don't realize how much someone meant to you untill they are gone. I definetly took a lot of things that were really right about us for granted. I never realized how much she really had to offer someone. Never realized how special what we had was or how well we really complimented each other. We both had the same beliefs on Grace (who else will go with you to a gay bar to see your uncle sing Karaoke and be in the ministry with you and understand God intended it to be about love not what we are doing wrong) she was the bestfriend I ever had and was one of the best people I have ever known. Untill she started feeling this way we could spend everyday together and just really enjoy doing anything as long as we were together. Anyways, if this is the Lord's will then so be it, just keep us in your prayers.
Old Jun 28, 2002 | 04:57 PM
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Youll be in my prayers Mark

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Old Jun 28, 2002 | 05:03 PM
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<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by 5LITEREATER:
She told me she is not sure anymore.</font>
Sorry to hear that. It's better she decided this now instead of Feb 9th though. Chicks! :O Sometimes you wanna just scream. So this means you completely broke up because she wasn't "sure"?

On the bright side, though, this gives you more time to spend with your car .
Old Jun 28, 2002 | 06:36 PM
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Heard this all before, not that it matters, but sometimes a person needs time to make sure their intentions are right. Cold feet don't alway happen at the last minute. If things are meant to be that she will re-evaluate the situation and come back to the realationship that much more sure about it.

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Old Jun 28, 2002 | 10:53 PM
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I'll be praying for you man. Just try not to think about it. She may just need some time to realize what she has with you or she just maybe scared. I know it doesnt seem like much but I just broke up with my g/f and we were together only 8mon. but she was my first real love. So I kind of know what you are going through just ona smaller scale. GOOD LUCK MAN
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Old Jun 29, 2002 | 01:21 PM
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Hey Mark, I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope and pray that maybe she just needs some time to think. I know several people who have broken off engagements and then they were back on after a few months. It's sometimes hard to tell what God wants for us, but just keep praying, he will make it clear to you. I've been with my girlfriend for 15 months now and I can't imagine if we broke up. I'm pretty sure we're going to get maried, but the truth is you just never know what's going to happen, or what God has planned for you. Oh, and sometime soon we need to hang out, I haven't seen you in forever! Talk to you soon broh.

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Old Jun 29, 2002 | 02:37 PM
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Damn man sorry to hear about that. Nice seeing ya at disney last night...Both of you will be in my prayers. But always know one things for shure that life will go on..

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Old Jun 29, 2002 | 05:32 PM
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We both had our doubts. We had a long (100min) talk today and it is over. No one is at fault. It's just not meant to be. Mike, I am glad to hear you are still together. I didn't know and was afraid to ask in case you weren't I didn't want to bring back any pain. Glad you are though. We will definetly hang out, I will be back next week and drop you a line.

Ken, sorry I couldn't remember your name, I remembered the face and the car though ! Yeah, I was just out trying to keep my mind off of it. I am doing pretty good now though, just moving forward in a new path trusting the Lord.

Thank all you guys for your prayer and support!
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