My alrm has gone bad, now I need to disable starter kill so I can start my car. Please help me

 

All a starter kill is, is a relay that has one wire from the alarm, one (usually) power wire, and the actual starter wire, cut in two.

All you need to do is figure out which wire is the starter wire (either yellow or purple, and pretty big), and then disconnect it from the relay, or alarm brain, then splice the wire back together.

Here is what a starter kill relay looks like:
http://www.bfranker.badz28.com/fbody/Relay5.JPG