Can anyone let me know in what order I how put these things?

Yeah, I know. Dumb question..

But I have 2 big washers, 6 gold nuts, 4 round gray things, 2 black plastics, and another set of 4 washers?

If you can tell, I'm a newbie here and have never installed shocks and what not.

 

when u take the old shocks off pay attention to where all that stuff goes. take a digital pic.......whatever the new shocks have ...im guessing is already on your car.