are bilsteins the best for f-bodies or is their a close match out there somewhere?

 

Bilstein HDs are good shocks for stock springs. The "best" shock really depends on your application, but IMO, you should look towards Koni for shocks better than Bilstein.

 

Bilsteins are a good shock at a modest price. There are better and more expensive shocks out there; it all depends on what you want to do with the car. Get a hold of Sam Strano at stranoparts.com. He's a F-Body suspension expert and can help you setup your suspension for the driving style you want.