I have to login to the forum everytime I start up a new session (I guess u could call it). How do I get it to login when I get to the site, by itself?

Cookies are enabledin my browser, plus other forums I visit do it just fine

 

In your User CP, make sure that "Automatically login when you return to the site? (uses cookies)" is checked to "YES". This is under "Edit Options".

 

Yeah it is

 

If everything else is set right in the User CP, it is a cookie issue on your end. You might want to kill all your cookies and start over.