I knew I was not going crazy!!! but I trust you guys so I almost started thinking I was. I knew what wire was at position " D " 100% so I just set up the other wires relative to that one. I shouldn't run into a problem if your is the exact same way. I am amking a modified image to make this right. But looking at my first post. you will see I did have it back wrong the first time. i took it apart and it is now back together with everything relative to pin D which I matched everything else up to after.

 

It just shows the connector but not oriented the way it plugs into the opti itself. too bad the diagram doesn't simply show the wire colors and pinouts of the opti harness itself. Of course that would make sense and that is why it isn't that way....

 

Final answer on this one? The picture is wrong. The opti side of the connector is flipped over so the letters run in the opposite direction. but the letters match up right. it is very misleading and confusing. Don't make the same mistake!