Okay, I've got my 4 Bose speakers out (95 btw), I'm ready to put in 4 new Pioneers, I don't want to cut my stock Bose harness and splice to the aftermarket one, I'd rather leave the male connector alone, buy a harness that plugs in to it, and splice the new (female) one into the aftermarket wires. Can I buy a connector like that? I guess I could rip one off a bose speaker and rig it, right? Thanks.