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Is this low of me?

Old 04-28-2009, 05:58 PM
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Is this low of me?

First no pics...sorry i fail..or at least no pics i can post

So im 21 and met this chick who is about to be 25 in one of my classes. We started talking and hit it off pretty well, we both are very attracted to each other and all that nonsense... well we started talking more out of class, getting to know more about each other, and i asked her what her hobbies are.... well she then tells me she doesnt really have any because she has a 2 year old son, and she asked me how i felt about that, and i answered honestly since i've never dealt with this situation before. I told her that i was impartial on the whole thing, i didnt want to hold it against her but i also dont know if i could be completely involved with a girl who has a kid thats not mine...

So question is even after talking and going out a few times would it be low for me to tell her that i dont think i could ever devote myself to a relationship?

either way i gotta do what i gotta do ...
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No pix? No care? No advice 4 you!! I suggest no one else make a comment till a pix is posted!!
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No pix? No care? No advice 4 you!! I suggest no one else make a comment till a pix is posted!!
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No. I'm only a few months younger than you and I don't want a kid for another couple years; especially one that isn't mine.
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I would think it would be more decent to just be upfront about it now.
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If you haven't started bangin yet then you don't really owe her any explanation. Being that you're 21 she can't be expecting much. If you were 30, maybe.
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Is the dad in the picture? If no, then she is looking for someone to play daddy and to support her and the kid.

If the dad is in the picture, and is an alright guy who takes care of the kid then more than likely she will be ok and be a little more "normal".
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Yeah, you are not obligated to do anything that involves her son unless you want to take over. You are too young for her mess, if she can get a baby sitter and all that stuff to get her kid out of the way when you're around then you may be given the go ahead, if she wants to deal her kids in everywhere you guys go and do she is looking for a dad not a partner. It isn't low you just shouldn't be part of it at this age, unless she is looking for a piping, which I did to a milf when i was 18 and she was 40.
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Atleast you know she puts out.
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Let me tell you how it is grasshopper. Aw heck, it will take to long to explain it all to you in a post so just watch this video.

She will be putty in your hands!

Remember most important of all "Women are attracted to men who smell like dear old Dad!"
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My advice is entirely contingent on the posting of pictures of said girl.
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Why would being honest with the girl be low of you?

Be upfront with her about everything and you'll have much less headaches.
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ahahahahaa..... damn ***** got you in trouble again....that will happen
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pics or it didn't happen
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